THE ME I FORGOT

A four-week rediscovery of the woman you were always meant to be.

Have You Forgotten Who You Are?

Life has a way of pulling us in every direction whether as a parent, caregiver or professional.  Somewhere along the way, many women find themselves asking:

  • “Where did I go?”

  • “Why do I feel invisible, even to myself?”

  • “Is this all there is?”

If you’re a woman over 45, you might be feeling:

  • Disconnected from your own identity, as though you’ve been living for everyone else, putting them first, all but yourself.

  • Emotionally exhausted, even when life looks “fine” on the outside but you are insecure and unsure on the inside.

  • Stuck in a cycle of self-doubt, wondering if it’s too late to rediscover your passions, purpose, or joy.

  • Haunted by a quiet grief for the version of you that once dreamed, laughed freely, and felt alive.

  • Unseen and unheard, especially in spaces where your wisdom and experience should shine.

  • Sleepwalking through life and scared of regret.

These aren’t just passing thoughts, they’re signals. Signals that it’s time to be The Me I Forgot.  

The Me I Forgot

A 4-week rediscovery for women who’ve lost themselves in Career or Caregiving.  You’ve spent years being everything to eveyone.  But now someting feels missing – you!.  This programme is your invitation to pause, reflect and reconnect with the woman you’ve quietly neglected.  This is your opportunity to find your identity, reignite dreams, and map out a future that feels true and meaningful.

The Me I Forgot is designed for women 45+ who feel:

  • Disconnected from their identity
  • Emotionally flat or invisible
  • Longing to reignite old dreams or discover new ones
  • Ready to map out a future that feels true and meaningful

 

Course Overview:

  • 4 Weekly Coaching Calls
    Guided sessions to help you explore, uncover, and reclaim your sense of self.

     

    🌀 The Me I Forgot Signature Framework
    A proven structure to gently guide your rediscovery journey.

    📖 Reflection Workbook
    Thought-provoking prompts and exercises to deepen your insights.

    🤝 Sisterhood Support Community
    A safe, nurturing space to share, connect, and grow with women who get you and have your back.

    🗣️ Personalised Feedback & Live Coaching
    Real-time support to help you move through blocks and celebrate breakthroughs.

Be by your side Coaching

Meet Mary Van Eker

Founder of The Me I Forgot programme

I know what it’s like to cry all the way home after dropping your child off at university.
I thought the tears were about her leaving, about the shift in family dynamics. But they were more than that. They were about me. About the quiet realisation that her dependency on me was over, and I didn’t know what came next.

If I’m not a mum in the way I’ve always been… then who am I?

Work felt like a hard slog. I didn’t feel recognised, heard, or seen. I felt burnt out. I fantasised about leaving and doing something else but I didn’t know what that “something else” was. I started thinking about retirement and felt scared, unsettled, and unsure why. I began reflecting on the dreams I had when I was younger, the ones I hadn’t pursued, and wondering how much time I had left to live the life I truly wanted.

I’ve been there. I’ve lived it.
I am you.

I know those feelings well. I created The Me I Forgot after living through them myself and after hearing the same quiet struggles echoed by women in my teams, committees, and circles.

As a professionally accredited EMCC Coach Practitioner, a proud ICF member, and a Reed Women in Tech Mentor, I bring both expertise and experience to this programme. I will deliver it with passion, skill, and a deep desire that every woman who joins feels more like her brilliant, authentic and perfect self by the end of it.

I’ve combined my coaching skills, mentoring experience, and personal journey to create a programme that meets women exactly where they are and helps them move forward with clarity, confidence, and renewed purpose.

I’m proud of The Me I Forgot programme.
I’ve poured my heart and soul into creating and delivering this powerful 4-week experience, because I know what’s possible when women are given the space to reconnect with themselves.

This isn’t just a course. It’s a turning point.
And I’d be honoured to Be By Your Side as you take it.

How You'll Feel After The Me I Forgot

 

 

 

How You'll Feel After The Me I Forgot

This isn’t just about learning, it’s about becoming.

By the end of the 4 weeks, you’ll feel:

  • More like yourself again, not the version shaped by roles, expectations, or burnout, but the real you.
  • Clearer about what matters  with a renewed sense of direction and purpose.
  • Lighter and more energised , as you let go of what no longer serves you and reconnect with what does.
  • More confident in your voice, able to speak up, set boundaries, and honour your needs.
  • Reconnected to your dreams, even the ones you thought you’d left behind.

You’ll walk away with:

  • A deeper understanding of who you are now  and who you’re becoming.
  • Practical tools to support your emotional wellbeing and personal growth.
  • A personalised vision for your next chapter one that feels true, exciting, and achievable.
  • A sense of belonging, having shared this journey with other women who truly get it.

This is your time.
Not to start over but to start with you at the centre.

Ready to Remember Who You Are?

You don’t need to keep feeling stuck, unseen, or unsure of what comes next.
You deserve to feel whole, inspired, and excited about your future.

The Me I Forgot is your invitation to pause, reflect, and reconnect with the woman you’ve quietly set aside — and to step into your next chapter with clarity and confidence.

Join us for this powerful 4-week journey.
Spaces are limited to keep the experience personal and supportive.

👉 Click below to reserve your place.
Let this be the moment you choose you.

Because you haven’t lost yourself. You’ve just been waiting to come home.

💬 Final Call to Action (CTA)

This is a one-time offer – just £197
(That’s 75% off the full programme price after launch)
Secure your place now and take the first step toward rediscovering the you that’s been waiting.

“Insanity is doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results.”
– Albert Einstein

👉 Book now. Change begins with action.

If you’re ready to stop holding yourself back and start creating real, lasting change, let’s talk, your next chapter starts with one powerful conversation.