My Philosophy
Together We Will
You don’t have to keep pushing through the fog.
If you feel stuck, heavy with self-doubt, or like you’ve lost your way, you’re not alone.
Through calm, compassionate coaching, I help professionals identify what’s holding them back, reframe their mental blockers and take practical steps to move forward with clarity, confidence and lightness.
Together, we shift the narrative -so you can stop second-guessing yourself and start feeling like you again.
Professional Life & Career Coach
Be by your side Coaching
At Be by your side Coaching, we believe that every individual has the potential to thrive and achieve their dreams. Our approach is rooted in empathy and understanding, guiding you through the challenges of life with personalised strategies that resonate with your unique journey. Whether you’re seeking clarity in your career, or fulfillment in your personal life, we are here to support you every step of the way. Together, we will unlock your strengths and pave the path to your success. Join us in this transformative experience and discover the power of coaching tailored just for you.


My Services
Let’s Grow!
I work with people who feel stuck in life, swirling in self-doubt and unsure how to move forward.
Through compassionate, insight-led coaching, I help them shift their mindset, untangle the inner chatter/ noise, and move ahead with clarity and confidence.

Being Happy
I use a compassionate yet highly practical approach to guide them to flip their narrative, unlock their potential, and finally feel like themselves again.

Fulfilling Potential
I coach people who feel stuck, overwhelmed, or lost in self-doubt reconnect with their confidence, clarity, and inner strength.
Together, we create a shift in perspective leaving them lighter, freer, and more
aligned with who they really are.

Making Changes
For when you are feeling stuck in a cycle, unsure how to break free, I offer space to breathe, reflect, and reset.

Finding Balance
My coaching supports you in letting go of what’s holding you back, so you can move with confidence into your next chapter – lighter, stronger, and more you.


About Mary Van Eker
Hi, I’m Mary, a mum of four, a corporate veteran, and a certified Life Coach.
I know how overwhelming life can feel when you’re facing uncertainty or standing at a crossroads. That’s why I created Be By Your Side Coaching, to offer a calm, supportive space where you don’t have to figure it all out alone.
With warmth, honesty, and deep care, I’ll help you gently explore what’s holding you back. Together, we’ll shine a light on the unhelpful patterns, beliefs, or doubts that may be clouding your thinking, and we’ll work through them at your pace.
I bring years of real-world experience and coaching insight to every session, helping you find clarity, confidence, and direction. You’ll leave each session feeling lighter, more grounded, and ready to take meaningful steps forward, no overwhelm, no pressure, just real progress.
If you’re ready to start thinking clearly and moving forward with kindness, purpose and ease, I’d be honoured to be by your side.
Let’s begin this journey together. Get in touch today.

Why Choose Us

Because real change needs more than motivation, it needs meaningful support, honest reflection, and someone who truly gets it. At Be By Your Side Coaching, I specialise in helping high-achieving professionals overcome imposter syndrome, self-doubt, and limiting beliefs so they can step into their next chapter with clarity and confidence. My coaching isn’t one-size-fits-all; it’s grounded in authenticity, driven by action, and designed around you.
I don’t just offer sessions, I offer partnership, insight, and tools that stick for the long term. If you’re ready to stop second-guessing yourself and start moving forward with purpose, I’ll be right by your side every step of the way.
You’ll experience powerful personal growth—building lasting confidence, clearer direction, and the mindset shifts needed to move forward with purpose and ease.
Through our work together, you’ll develop deep self-awareness and uncover the beliefs, patterns, and inner strengths that shape your choices, giving you the clarity to lead your life with intention and authenticity.
Every step of the journey is held in a safe, non-judgemental space where you’re met with genuine care, compassion, and unwavering support—so you can explore, heal, and grow at your own pace.
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Lydney, Gloucestershire, UK